Well if you quit every guilld as soon an theres a problem, GL getting and keeping your spot in any raid. Try seeking out information more than for 10 secs before bitching about everything.
Players like Urcish who spent several nights in kara and so forth without ANY chance to get something useable, except the hope that the guild one day will raid places where he has chances of obtaining a loot, is worth GOLD to any guild that he may join. Luckily he joined this one. People who are so dedicated to helping other players, are people who will get their raid spots because they have proved themselves to the guild, that they actually are worth giving a raid spot. Instead of criticizing things, he deals with them, and gets it fixed. You just bail out, and then talk afterwards "ooooh, this is wrong, that is wrong", indeed cowardly done. 25 men fought 4 hours so you could get your shoulders, and then you just say. Fuck them all, i quit. Thats not "hardcore" done.
TBH Urcish deserves a lot more appreciation, than he actually gets from many people. And frankly i understand if hes pissed off, knowing how much organizing, raiding and lots of other stuff he did so YOU even had a chance at looking at High king maulgar. And then hearing so many people were against him getting those shoulders was just... unbelievable.
DKP system has been posted at website for ages, so no excuse for not knowing how it works, even said a week before it was still a work in progress.
Raid leaders get annoyed because a lot of people think they now how to do it all in Gruul instead of listening to what has do be done, doing everything else but listen to the tactics. And even if you do know it the constant chatting makes it harder for people who dont know it to focus about the relevant stuff being said, add that 5 ppl were on time to the raid.
U tried talk to fallen about not being able to get him? U posted a note at the warrior forum? Dont think so because then ill bet that problem would have been solved.
When dealing with it like this, youll get no sympathy from here, i case you havent figured it out already.
Urcish on the other handhas my utmost respect, and i will always back him up 110%